It is very uncommon for a girl to confess to a guy unless she's crazy into him. The reason being that girls are usually more shy and find it weird being the one confessing instead of the guy. However there are the unique individuals who tend to be more brave and outgoing which is not a bad thing. It just shows the girl has a lot of self-confidence and are willing to put aside their pride to obtain something that they believe is worth a lot to them.
In a normal scenario the guy will confess to the girl if things are going well, and if it doesn't happen... just be patient and give it some time, and if not then it is a possibility that the guy is just not that into the girl.
As well some guys might even be scared of the approach where a girl confesses to them because they won't know how to respond in that type of situation. The difference between girls and guys is that girls tend to have a softer heart and their feelings are usually more fragile compared to a guy. So if a girl were to approach a guy, and the guy doesn't feel the same way then he will feel like a jerk if he has to reject her because no matter how the guy breaks it to the girl. In the end, the result will be the same; the girl gets her heart shattered, unless she was never that into the guy in the first place, but if she wasn't then there would really be no reason for her to feel the need to confess.
The best solution for a situation like this would be for the girl to just naturally give the guy signs that she has interest in him and would like to move forward into a relationship, but not come on too strong in a way that would scare off the guy. Eventually, if the guy catches on to the signs in time, and he ends up feeling the same and shows interest in the girl as well; and he is man enough. Then he will initiate the first move, and do all the work. So there is no need for the girl to worry about the complication of having to confess to the guy instead. However, if in the end, the guy just shows no interest at all, and possibly tries to avoid the girl. Then the girl needs to know when the right time to move on is, either by reading the signs from the guy or if the guy tends to avoid the girl. That way things don't become too complicated and things don't become too uncomfortable for both parties.
Good Luck!
In a normal scenario the guy will confess to the girl if things are going well, and if it doesn't happen... just be patient and give it some time, and if not then it is a possibility that the guy is just not that into the girl.
As well some guys might even be scared of the approach where a girl confesses to them because they won't know how to respond in that type of situation. The difference between girls and guys is that girls tend to have a softer heart and their feelings are usually more fragile compared to a guy. So if a girl were to approach a guy, and the guy doesn't feel the same way then he will feel like a jerk if he has to reject her because no matter how the guy breaks it to the girl. In the end, the result will be the same; the girl gets her heart shattered, unless she was never that into the guy in the first place, but if she wasn't then there would really be no reason for her to feel the need to confess.
The best solution for a situation like this would be for the girl to just naturally give the guy signs that she has interest in him and would like to move forward into a relationship, but not come on too strong in a way that would scare off the guy. Eventually, if the guy catches on to the signs in time, and he ends up feeling the same and shows interest in the girl as well; and he is man enough. Then he will initiate the first move, and do all the work. So there is no need for the girl to worry about the complication of having to confess to the guy instead. However, if in the end, the guy just shows no interest at all, and possibly tries to avoid the girl. Then the girl needs to know when the right time to move on is, either by reading the signs from the guy or if the guy tends to avoid the girl. That way things don't become too complicated and things don't become too uncomfortable for both parties.
Good Luck!
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